After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.
-Matthew 6:9-13 (King James Version)
I think we can all use some prayer tips. Prayer, for the most part, is misunderstood and underused. Too often, I find myself praying like God is some kind of genie who is just waiting for me to ask Him for something. I find my prayer life as nothing more than just giving God a list of requests, and maybe saying something like "Praise your name." Is that really what prayer should be? I don't think so. In Matthew 6, Jesus teaches us some principles to prayer. We're first going to look at how Jesus instructs us to pray. Then, tomorrow, we'll look at how we should not pray. Then, on the next day, we'll look at the two of them together and see which one reflects the prayer life we currently have.
Verses 9-13 commonly make up what is called "The Lord's Prayer." I believe there are 5 elements to this prayer that should be found in each of our prayer lives. I don't think that Jesus was instructing us to just say this prayer each and every day. We'll see why tomorrow. Instead, I believe this is meant to be a pattern, a template if you will. Let's break it down.
Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. The first element to proper prayer is Praise. The word "Hallowed" means to set apart as sacred, or holy. We are paying to our Father, who is in Heaven, who's name is set apart as holy. We must praise Him. Praise Him for who He is (Our Father), praise Him because He is Holy. To pray properly, we must praise God.
Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven. The second element to proper prayer is to pray that the Will of God is done in every and all circumstances. This element is probably the most difficult for you and I to do. Why? Because we like to be in control, we like what we want. To pray that God's will is done takes the spotlight off of us and puts it on Him. To pray that God's will be done means it is out of our control, and all things are in the control of God. If we are going to pray properly, we must pray that the will of God is done this day.
Give us this day our daily bread. The third element to proper prayer is to pray for our Daily Needs. This is another difficult thing for us to pray for. What we want and what we need are two entirely different things. When we pray and ask God to meed our daily needs, He will. When we pray and ask God for our daily wants, He will meet our daily needs. We can't always have what we want, but God will make sure we have our daily needs. To pray properly, we must ask God to meet our needs so that His will will be done.
And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. The forth element to proper prayer is to ask Forgiveness and to Forgive. We must seek forgiveness for our sins. We sin each day, whether deliberately or by circumstance. Because of sin, we must seek forgiveness. We must also forgive those who have sinned against us. If we ask God for forgiveness, then we must be willing to forgive others. To pray properly, we must not withhold our forgiveness to others.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. The fifth element to proper prayer is to ask for God's Leading. We must seek the leading of God throughout the day. Commit each day to God, then follow the direction of God. That way, you will avoid evil and temptation. To pray properly, you must seek the leading of God, and then follow the leading of God for the day.
Take these five elements, and apply them to your prayer life. Do each of these elements exist in your current prayers? What can you do to apply them? Think About It.